Life is truly like a box of chocolate. It’s full of ups and downs wrapped up in a pretty gift paper. This moment you are so happy and excited about life that you even want to call like literally, the most annoying girl you have on Facebook, and tell her you miss her (even though you don’t even know her ’cause you only friended her after you kicked her ass at Tetris on Facebook). But luckily for you that won’t happen, because life happens, and in the next moment you’ll want to murder her, chop her off in pieces and send her to Japan in an orange empty box. Ok, that maybe sounded a little harsh. Fine, that sounded harsh, but you get the idea. Life is happening which means you won’t always be your happiest self and sometimes you will lay around your bed and watch cartoons all day, but guess what? You have bad days. Yeah, it’s normal. Everyone has bad days once in a while.
Life it’s all about the right attitude, like the old grandma saying // you must see the fuller part of the glass or … something like that. Life it’s all about attitude, like figuring out that if you are going to be a mess, you might as well be a hot mess. Life it’s all about attitude, even when someone tells you have gained weight on holiday, and that might be like only 99,9% true, be like “What a flip flop, man? I don’t weigh anything, I’m like a freaking cloud!”
Your attitude in life it’s truly important, like really, really important. When life gets difficult, don’t let it drag you into a sea full of negative thoughts. Get up and say that you can do it! Say that you are smart and beautiful, and that you have an ass that doesn’t quit! Say that you are a warrior, a strong warrior called beyoncé pan chicken. Say it until you believe it, because trust me, your attitude won’t probably change the outcome of a situation, but it will definitely change your mood and state of mind. It’s so weird being my own role model, like, I totally recommend it.
Speaking of the right attitude, choosing the right outfit is just as important. The statement piece of this outfit is without any doubt the blazer from H&M. I love the color of it and the buttons which give the blazer a unique vibe to it, but also the fact that such piece is timeless. I also love my white jeans from Zara which always turn black by the end of the day and my sweater from H&M which is super cozy, so cozy I could wear every single day. If you know me, then you probably know that I love incorporating masculine pieces into my wardrobe, ’cause I think they’re super cool, classic and give any look a really nice touch without sacrificing the femininity. Boots from last year.
The difference between being frustrated or angry, and being positive and calm or even happy about something is how you choose to approach that “something” that it’s challenging you. It’s all about your attitude. The strange thing about this is that even though attitude is important, it’s one of those things that we just don’t quit think about. I mean, in a stressful situation we feel perfectly justified being stressed or even angry, I mean it’s natural, right? We have enough evidence to support that in such situations is normal we feel stressed and that it isn’t about attitude? The funny thing is that we are the ones who select evidence that supports our mindset. When we change our mindset, we discover new evidence that supports a new set of thoughts, but also generate a new way of feeling about it. So, instead of being stressed, we can change our mindset into something more positive and by doing that, we have a new attitude in that situation. Is not easy, but it’s definitely worth it!